PHP E-mail Efficiency (BCC vs individual e-mails) - php

Our web-based PHP software currently sends out a newsletter to anywhere between 1-2000 recipients. Often the newsletter has a PDF attachment (15KB-5MB). The newsletter does not need to be customized to the individual recipients.
Question: Is it better to send one e-mail that has each recipient blind carbon copied (BCC) or to generate a unique e-mail message for each recipient?
Considerations:
- Which option puts less stress on the mail transfer agent?
- Which option is more efficient programmatically?
- Which option is less resource intensive?
- Are there any limitations to either option? (e.g. BCC having a maximum number)
I've tried Google and I just can't find anyone that has a definitive opinion based on empirical evidence. It's actually hard to find anyone that has an opinion at all.
THANKS: To everyone who contributed to answering this question. Greatly appreciate the feedback from people to ensure we're doing things properly!

Generate a single email per recipient. Use the To field instead of BCC to make it personal.
Advantages
The mail queue will accurately reflect what is happening.
You can distribute the load to multiple email servers.
You can personalize the "To" "Subject" "Body" etc.
You can use tracking URL's.
Mail servers often have a BCC limit per message. You will not hit a limit if you send a single message at a time.
BCC emails typically remain in the queue until all deliveries are complete. It is rare, but we have experienced (with the latest qmail) that sometimes a single recipient will respond with an error that confuses the mail server to send it again, fail, again, fail...until we remove it from the queue. This gets people very upset.
Disadvantages
PHP script has to work harder to generate the individual requests.
There are surely other advantages and disadvantages, but that is the list I follow.
UPDATE: Regarding the PDF attachment, I would recommend providing a download link unless it is crucial to include it with the email.
PDF attachments make an email look more suspicious to spam/virus scanners, because spam is known to try to exploit vulnerable versions of Acrobat. Those PDF attachments might make your newsletter more likely to end up in the recipient's Spam folder.
Large PDF's (1+mb) are not friendly to people checking their email with slow connections or constrained devices such as smartphones.
A link is much smaller than the attachment. You will save upwards to 13GB of bandwidth if you leave off that 5MB attachment!

It depends on MTA infrastructure at your site. If the box that is running your web app is set up to forward all e-mails to some e-mail hub at your ISP then BCC is definitely the advantage. Otherwise, it may save some bandwidth for you but not necessarily (it depends on the actual addresses you send to) Also, I would recommend you not to attach the pdf to the message but place it on the web server and include hyperlink in e-mail. As I got your message is a bulk message. I believe that many people do not read your messages even they opted in to receive.

Instead of attaching such a large file (which might also be rejected by some MTAs because of the size) upload it somewhere on a publicly accessible place (i.e. a web server) and send a simple link to all of the email recipients which they can use to view the PDF.
The good thing about this approach is that you save loads of bandwidth and even if you need different PDFs for every recipient you could still use it.

Related

How to get content from email sent to your lamp server

Say I have my own server, and I want to send an email that's reads "hello World" to my site, submit#example.com
Is there a way to automatically extract the text "hello world" and post the content to my website?
I believe I can read a file with PHP, and the file can be created by apache for every incoming email... but I'm missing some knowledge here
can anybody help me?
You need to have PHP act as an email client. Take a look at PHP IMAP (which actually works for POP too) http://php.net/manual/en/intro.imap.php
While emails are almost always stored on disk as files, accessing those files directly would not be advisable unless you were writing a new email server (I've contemplated that actually, but it is definitely NOT a trivial task) and your web server (e.g., PHP running in Apache) wouldn't have that level of access. The basic steps the right way are:
Add the email account, set the password, etc. Decide whether you want to access it as IMAP (emails stick around unless you delete and then empty the trash, which lets you archive on the server and/or access from other devices) or POP (typically "read the emails and delete from the server immediately").
Write PHP code to read the mail account. The specifics will vary slightly depending on the email server/hosting configuration. You may need to work at it a bit until you can successfully read a list of messages.
Once you are able to read the messages, you will likely need to handle multiple formats. In particular, messages may come in as plain text or as mime parts. There can be quite a bit of variation depending on the software used to write the original message, so to test you may want to send in messages using Outlook, Thunderbird and other programs.
You will also likely need to filter out HTML tags and other extraneous stuff from legitimate messages AND you will inevitably have to come up with a way to block spam. If you only accept messages from registered users then you can verify based on the From: address (at least as a start, because that can be spoofed too...) but if the support email address is "open" then filtering the junk can be quite a challenge.
This is a non-trivial project, but I have successfully set up a few systems of this type, though typically with controls to help block spam (e.g., required codes in the Subject line; limited "From" addresses).

Reading File and Mailing with PHP

I would like to read a data file (such as csv or txt) and mail it using PHP. I would like to be able to have at 5 minute pause in between each send of data. I would also like to use the email field as the senders email. Any help would be appreciated.
Each data chunk will contain:
name
email
address
city
state
zip code
phone
comments
I'm guessing you want to write a newsletter application, so proceeding under that assumption:
You are probably not going to find this answer very helpful, but you should really consider using a newsletter service instead of writing your own code. The reason for this is that sending newsletters requires a LOT more effort and different skills than writing a simple script.
For example, but not exclusively:
Setting up a mailserver correctly.
Taking care about the reverse DNS.
Managing digital signatures (DKIM) for your mail.
Subscribing and tracking sender feedback loops.
Tracking and avoiding DNSBL blocking lists for your server.
etc.
If you really want to write your own code, you have been warned. Take a look at str_getcsv() and SwiftMailer and don't be surprised if you get headaches from this project.

Safe way to send mail via PHP to many users

Let me explain what I mean in my title. Let's say, that for example I'm creating a small e-commerce system for one web shop/catalog. There's a possibility for customers to choose, do they wish to receive newsletters or not. If they do, then logically thinking the newsletters should be send immediately as the newsletter is formed and ready.
Of course it can be done simple by fetching all specified user e-mails from database and using for cycle to send mail via mail function in loop, but problem is that I was told, that this is bad practice. The simple and not cheap way would be purchasing internet service for sending newsletters, but what for the php programmer is needed, then?
So I ask you humble comrades, what from your point of view might be a solution?
NB! You probably won't believe me, but it is not for spamming.
UPD: I might have explained myself wrong, but I would like to hear a solution not only about the correct way to send mail, but also about the correct delivery. Since not every mail send is always delivered.
Of course there are some reasons, which are unpredictable. For example someplace along the way something broke and mail was lost (if such thing is possible), but there are also other reasons which are influenced maybe from server or elsewhere. Maybe there is need to talk with hoster about it?
There is no reason why you couldn't write it in PHP, although I would not make it a part of a webrequest / HTTP process. I've successfully implemented for give or take 500,000 subscribers per mailing (depending on local data available, as this was a location-specific project). It was an in-house project, so unfortunately no code/package for you, but some pointers I came across:
Setting up delivery
Started out with phpmailer itself, to take care of formatting, encoding of contents and headers, adding of attachments etc. That portion of it works well, and I wouldn't want to write that from scratch.
The 'sending' of an email itself is just setting some flag in a database whether / how / what should be sent to (a portion of) the subscribers.
After this flag is set, it will automatically be picked up by a cronjob, no more webserver involved.
I started out with a heavily polluted database with millions of email addresses, of which a lot were obvious not valid, so first thing was to validate all email addresses for format, then for host:
filter_var($email, FILTER_VALIDATE_EMAIL); over the subscribers (and storing the result obviously) got rid of the first few hundred thousand invalid emails.
Splitting out the host (and storing the host name) from the emails, and validating that (does it have an MX or at least an A record in DNS, but keep in mind: you can send email to an IP-address foo#[255.255.255.255], so do keep those valid)) got rid of a good portion more. The emailaddresses here are not permanently disabled, but with a status flag that indicates they're disabled because of the domain name / ip.
Scripts were changed to require valid emailaddresses on subscription / before insertion, this nonsense of 'you aint gonna get it#anywhere' subscription-pollution in the database was just ridiculous.
Now I ended up with a list of email addresses that had the potential of being valid. There are in essence 3 ways to detect invalid addresses (keep in mind, the all can be temporary):
They are denied immediately by the server.
The earlier determined server just doesn't listen to traffic.
They are bounced long after you thought you delivered them.
Strange thing, the bounces, which every emailserver seems to have another format forand were a hell to parse at first, ended up actually pretty easy to capture using VERP. Rather then parsing whole emails, a dedicated email address (let's call it mailer#example.com) was configured to rather then deliver to mailbox, to pipe it through a command, and if we sent email to user#server.tld, the Return-Path was set for mailer+user=server.tld#example.com. Easily parsed on receipt, and after how many bounces (mailbox could not exist, mailbox may be full (yes, still!), etc.) you declare an emailaddress unusable is up to you.
Now, the direct denial by the server. Probably we could have gone with properly configuring some MTA and/or writing plugins for those, but as the emails were time-sensitive, and we had to have absolute configurable control per mailing over last usable delivery time (after which the email was not longer of interest to the user), throttling per receiving server, and generally everything, it would take about the same time writing a mailer in PHP which we knew better, that used the SMTP protocol directly to socket 25 on receiving servers. With a minimum amount of effort the possibility of another transport then the default choices in PHPMailer was built-in. The SMTP protocol is actually quite simple, but there are some caveats:
A lot of receiving server apply Grey Listing: most spambots will not really care if a specific mail arrives, they just churn them out. So, if an unknown / not yet trusted sender send mail, it will be temporarily rejected. Catch that (usually code 451), and place the email in the queue for later retry.
A mailserver, especially of the larger ISP's and free services (gmail, hotmail/msn/live, etc.) will not stand for a torrent of mail without fighting back: after the first couple of hundred / thousand, they start rejecting you. More about that later.
Getting speed
Now, we had a delivery system that worked, but it needed to be fast. Sending a 10,000 emails in an hour is all fine if you only have 10,000 addresses to send to, but the minimum we required was about 200,000 per hour. Start of it was a dedicated server (which can actually be pretty low powered, no matter what you do, most of time taken in delivery of email is in the network, not on your server).
Caching of IP's: remember all those IP's we requested from hostnames in email addresses? We stored those obviously, and looking up their IP's again and again causes considerable lag. However, IPs may change: a DNS record there, another MX at another place... the data gets stale fast. Most of the time the server isn't actually sending anything (subscription newslettters come in bursts obviously), a low-priority cronjob is running checking all hostnames with a stale IP (we chose older then 1 day as being stale) for an IP address, including those which previously had none (new domains get registered all the time, so why shouldn't a domain become available the day after someone already enthusiastically subscribed with his/her brand new email address? Or server problems with some domain are solved, etc.). Actually sending the emails now required no more domain lookups.
Reuse of the SMTP connection: setting up a connection to a server takes relatively a large portion of the time to deliver an email when you're talking directly to port 25. You don't have to setup a new connection for every email, you can just send the next over the same connection. A bit of trail-and-error has resulted in setting the default here to about 50 emails per connection (assuming you have that many or more for the domain). However, on failure of an emailaddress closing and reopening the connection for a retry sometimes helped. All in all, this really helped to speed things along.
Some obvious one, so obvious I almost forgot to mention it: it would be a waste to have to create the body of the email on the spot: if it's a general mail, have the body ready (I altered PHPMailer somewhat to be able to use a cached email), possibly days before (if you know you're going to send a mail on Friday, and your server is idling, why not prepare them on Wednesday already? If it's personalized, you could still prepare it beforehand given enough time, if not, at least have the non-personalized portions waiting to go.
Multiple processes. Did I mention much of the time it takes to deliver email is spend on the network? One mailing process is not nearly getting the most from your emailserver, barely noticable load and the mails are trickling out. Play around with a number of processes mailing different portions of the queue to see what's right for your server/connection, but remember 2 very important things:
Different processes make you very vulnerable to race conditions: be freaking absolutely sure you have a fullproof system that will never send the same mail twice (thrice, of even more). Not only does it seriously annoy users, your spamrating goes up a notch.
Keep domains together where possible: randomly picking from the queue you will lose the advantage of keeping an open connection to the server receiving email for the domain.
Avoiding rejects
You're going to send a lot of mail. That's exactly what spammers do. However, you don't want to be seen as a spammer (after all, you aren't, are you)? There are a number of mechanisms in place which will thoroughly increase your trustworthiness to receiving servers:
Have a proper reverse DNS: processes checking the DNS belonging to the IP that is sending the email like it very much if the second level domains match: are you sending mail on behalf of example.com? Make sure your server's reverse DNS is something like somename.example.com.
Publish SPF records for your domain: explicitly indicate the machine used to send your bulk email is allowed & expected to send mail with that From / Return-Path headers.
remember rejects: servers don't like it to tell you again and again that different email addresses don't exist. Either automated mechanisms, and even human admins, blocked our server while we worked through all non-validated email addresses that did (no longer) exist. We didn't employ a double opt-in until later, so the database was polluted with typos, people switching IPs and thereby email address, prank email addresses and so on. Be sure to capture those invalids, and given enough or sever enough failures, unsubscribe them. They're doing you no good, they're hogging resources, and if they really want you mail and the mailbox becomes available later, they'll just have to resubscribe.
DKIM is another mechanism that may increase your trustworthiness, but as we haven't implemented it (yet), I cannot tell you much about that.
MX records: some servers still like it if your sending server is also the receiving server for the domain. As it was at the time, we had only 1 MX, and as the mailing server was still not that very busy, we dubbed it the fallback MX server for the domain. The normal MX server was not the server sending the subscriptions, as it is very irritating to be temporarily blocked by a server you're trying to send an important email to (clients etc.) because you already sent a load of less important mail. It does have the highest preference as receiving MX, but in the event it would fail we had the nice bonus that our subscription sending server would still be fallback for delivery, so in crisis we could still get to it, preventing awkward bounces to customers trying to reach us.
Tell them about you. Seriously. A lot of major players in free email addresses like live.com offer you the opportunity to sign up in some way, or have some point of contact to go to for help & support if your emails get rejected. I you have a legitimate reason to send so many emails, and it is believable you have that many subscribers, chances are they seriously up the number of emails you can send to their server per hour. A meager 1,000 may become somewhere in the ten-thousands or even higher if you are persuasive and honest enough. There may be contracts, requirements you have to fulfill, and promises you must make (and keep) to be allowed this. ISP's are a brand apart, and every other player is different. Don't bother calling them usually, because 99% of the time the only numbers you can find will only have people willing to troubleshoot your internet connection, which understand (or are allowed) little else. An abuse# email address is a good place to start, but see if you can delve up a more to-the-point email address up from somewhere. Be precise, honest and complete: roughly how many subscribers of you have an emailaddress with that ISP, how often are you trying to mail them, what are the errors or denials you receive, how is the subscribe & unscubscribe process like, and what is the service you actually provide to their customers. Also, be nice: how vital sending those mails may be to your business, panicking about it and claiming terrible losses does not concern them. A polite statement of facts and wishes, and asking whether they can help rather then demanding a solution goes a very long way.
Throttling: as much as you tried, some server will accept only a certain amount of mail per hour and/or day from you. Learn those numbers (we're logging successes & failures anyway), set them to a reasonable default for the normal domains, set them to agreed upon limits for bigger players.
Avoiding being tagged as spam
First rule: don't spam!
Second rule: ever! Not a 'once off', not a 'they haven't subscribed but this may be the deal of a lifetime to them', not with the best intentions, people have had to ask for your emails.
Obviously set up a correct double opt-in subscription mechanism.
PHPMailer does set proper headers on its own,
Set up an easy unsubscribe mechanism, by web (include a link to it in every mail), possibly also email and customerservice if you have it. Make sure the customerservice can unsubscribe people directly.
As said earlier: unsubscribe (excessive) fails & bounces.
Avoid spammy 'deal of a lifetime' wordings.
Use url's in your emails sparingly.
Avoid adding links to domains outside your control, unless you are absolutely sure you can trust them not to spam, if even then...
Provide value to the user: being tagged as spam by user-interaction in google/yahoo/live webmail clients seriously hurts future successes (on a site note: if you sign up for it, live/msn/hotmail will forward all mail to you send by your domain which is tagged as spam by users. Learn to love it, and as always: unsubscribe them, they clearly don't want your mall and are hurting your spam rating).
Monitor blacklists for your IP. If you appear on one of those, it's bye bye, so immidiate action in both clearing your name and determining the case is required.
Measuring success rate
With the whole process under your control, you are reasonably sure the email ended up somewhere (although it could be the MX's bitbucket or a spam folder), or you have logged a failure & the reason why. That takes care of the 'actually delivered' numbers.
Some people will try to convince you to add links to online images to your emails (either real or the famous 1x1 transparent gif) to measure how many people actually read your email. As a high percentage blocks those images, these numbers are shaky at best, and our believe is we just shouldn't bother with them, their numbers are utterly unreliable.
Your best bet for measuring actual success rate are a lot easier if you want the users to do something. Add parameters to links in the mail, so you can measure how many users arrive at the site you linked, whether they performed desired actions (watched a video, left a comment, purchased goods).
All in all, with all the logging, the user-interface, configurable settings per domain / email / user etc. It took us about 1,5 man-month to build & iron out the quirks. That may be quite an investment compared to outsourcing the emails, it may be not, it all depends on the volume & business itself.
Now, let the flaming begin that I was a fool to write an MTA in PHP, I for one thoroughly enjoyed it (which is one reason I wrote this huge amount of text), and the extremely versatile logging & settings capabilities, per-host alerts based on failure percentage etc. are making live oh so easy ;)
Using something like Swiftmailer, PHPmailer or Zend_mail are much better alternatives to using the simple mail() function as it can be easily marked as spam. There are simply too many issues with mailing that need to be considered - most of these are solved by using pre-existing libraries.
Just a few problems that need to be addressed when sending mass emails manually:
Using incorrect headers.
Processing bounced messages
Timing out of script due to an influx of emails.
Edit:
Probably not the answer you're looking for. But, I would strongly suggest you invest in something like Campaign Monitor or Mail Chimp. Since this process is not for educational purposes, but commercial, I would strongly suggest the above services.
I got your question, but before replying, let's me go to usual considerations. First, I strongly recommend using a service like Mail Chimp. It's kinda free for small jobs, and has many cool features, like tracking back how many emails were open, how many were clicked, how many failed on deliver... Think about make a favor to yourself and don't reinvent the wheel.
Now, for getting to know purpose, let's go to the reply to your question.
First thing to have in mind is to enforce your list to be a good one. How to do that? Well, for a good list, I mean a valid email addresses list. Simple put a newsletter form on your page, with just one field (maybe a captcha, but I don't think it is necessary).
Save all input to a database table, with a field "isValid" set as false by default, and any kind of unique hash. Then you send a confirmation email, with a link (with the hash generated) for confimation which when clicked will make the "isValid" flag true, and a link for cancelation (ALWAYS send this cancelation link within all your emails).
This is what stores and serious sites do. Anything that force your customers/visitors to receive is a bad moral practice (ie, spam).
Second thing, use a good hosting service. Too cheap services usually are used by spammers, and major email services blacklist everything coming from those addresses.
I know, you should be asking yourself if I get your question wrong. No, I don't, technical stuff comes now.
Why is a bad practice put a mail function inside a for loop? Simple. Because function mail do several operations everytime it is called. PHP, will open a connection to mail server, send data to be parsed, ask for sending, register mail server status, close connection, bubble up status to finish the mail function you called and clean up the memory mess.
This connection overhead is the problem people state as bad practice from programming point of view. Using a SMTP/IMAP solution is better because it optimizes this process.
A little bit down on tech stuff I see your questions about delivery. Well, as I said, you have some ways to ensure you emails list is good enough. But what if another exception occurs, like having a blackout + no-break failures on customer server?
Well, PHP keeps the status of "asking mail server to send, mail server sent". If the mail server sent your message, PHP will return true. Period.
If client was unable to receive, or reject, you should check email headers and email status. These are on email server. Once again, these informations can be accessed with SMTP/POP/IMAP extensions, not with mail function.
If you wanna go further, read IMAP docs, search for email classes (phpclasses.org, pear and pecl are best places to look into).
Extra tip: RFCs can be useful, as you can understand better what email servers really talks to each other.
Extra tip 2: Access you gmail or ymail and check for your sent/received messages for their "full version" and read its headers. You can learn a lot with them.
Via SMTP Authentication: http://www.cyberciti.biz/tips/howto-php-send-email-via-smtp-authentication.html
Just use PHP Mail and study IMF and how to build custom headers you can attach the fourth parameter, exmaple follows
<?php
// multiple recipients
$to = 'aidan#example.com' . ', '; // note the comma
$to .= 'wez#example.com';
// subject
$subject = 'Birthday Reminders for August';
// message
$message = '
<html>
...
</html>
';
// To send HTML mail, the Content-type header must be set
$headers = 'MIME-Version: 1.0' . "\r\n";
$headers .= 'Content-type: text/html; charset=iso-8859-1' . "\r\n";
// Additional headers
$headers .= 'To: Mary <mary#example.com>, Kelly <kelly#example.com>' . "\r\n";
$headers .= 'From: Birthday Reminder <birthday#example.com>' . "\r\n";
$headers .= 'Cc: birthdayarchive#example.com' . "\r\n";
$headers .= 'Bcc: birthdaycheck#example.com' . "\r\n";
// Mail it
mail($to, $subject, $message, $headers);
?>
Source: http://php.net/manual/en/function.mail.php
create a mail queue subsystem which might include tables such as mail_queue, mail_status, mail_attachments, mail_recipients and mail_templates etc...
You might consider PHPMailer
http://phpmailer.worxware.com/index.php?pg=exampleasendmail
You can add multiple recipients and a special callback function for handling the returning messages for every single mail sent. (for an example visit the link)
I Don't think that catching a "mail delivery failed" error mail is possible via php except that you are using PHPMailer via SMTP and once in a while watch for any returning message form any recipient in from your outgoing email collection.

How to handle mass email

I'm about ready to unveil a "coming soon" page and one thing I need is a way for users to enter their email address for me to email once the site goes live. What is the best way to do this?
Should I store the emails in a DB and then run a PHP script to email them from my web host? Should I have the emails just kind of be collected and then emailed manually by me either locally or from the server? Is there another way I should do it?
Also, are there certain web-hosts that restrain the amount of emails you can send out, thus causing a problem for mass email.
The only "unknown" currently is how large of a response I'll get...only time will tell.
Thanks guys!
Store it in the database - Yes. It's no unlike storing any other piece of data.
Mass email at once - No
Mass email manually (or individually mail manually) - No
Do some web hosts limit how many you can send at once? - Yes
I don't know the "best" way but I know a really good way. We have built several mass emailing programs and the technique we incorporated was a throttling technique whereby we had a script that ran every three minutes and sent 20 emails at a time.
It keeps the server from choking and the mail queue from exceeding any of our hosts' mail limits.
Store the email addresses in a database and write a batch job that mail merges them into your message and sends them out as needed.
There are dozens of methods you can use for this kind of problem, but unfortunately there's no real way to pinpoint a solution for you, since there are a lot of variables.
If you only get 3 responses, then you might want to just manually email the users from your email client using BCC:. You've already got all the tools you need to do that, and setting up a script might be a waste of time. This isn't really a great long-term solution however.
For most moderate-sized web sites you would store the emails in a database, and use a mailing script to send them out. PHPMailer is a good tool to help with getting mail sent, and you can manage a decent amount of email addresses manually. Managing addresses manually can be a bit of a pain however, as you have to deal with unsubscribe links, script timeouts, bounced email, etc.
If you get up the tens of thousands of email addresses, you may want to start looking at a third-party mailing software or service that can do threaded sending. Looping through and sending email to 50,000 people via a PHP script can be slow, and take hours.
Basically you have to weigh the difficulty, time and cost of each method versus how much flexibility and power you think you're going to need.
To store emails in a db, and sending them out using a cronjob is a good way to solve the problem, if you have constrains regarding the amount of emails you're allowed to send within a period of time, you can handle it by keeping track of how many emails you've sent every time the cronjob runs.
Also, there are open source products to do this, such as phplist http://www.phplist.com/
Like Eric mentioned above, another option is to use a commercial service to manage your mailing list.
I use Mailchimp (http://www.mailchimp.com). They give you everything you need (signup forms, email templates, etc.), and are completely free unless your list grows to more than 500 subscribers.
Writing the emails to a database or a text/log file are both fine ways to store the emails.
Depending on how many emails you receive, you may want to write a program (PHP works) to send a separate email to each person. Don't send a mass email from your regular email client with everyone on a big To: line.
There are also commercial programs that manage mailing to lists of people (probably open source ones, too). Most of those commercial ones offer a free trial period.

Are there any way to know whether user open mail?

we build newsletter module,
and send email to members.
The environment is LAMP.
Are there any way to know whether member open the mail ?
i hear about put image if 'php' source ,
what is the best way?
Ultimately there is obviously no fool-proof way to get notifications, because there is no guaranteed way of getting the email client to respond back in some fashion; the email client can be set up to just interpret the incoming email as ASCII text and nothing more, and there is nothing you can do about that.
However; in most cases if you are emailing to users that are expecting an email, odds are that HTML rendering and inline images are probably turned on for your source address, so using an inline IMG tag and monitoring access to the referenced file (obviously using some per-user unique ID in the reference) should give you the best you are going to get.
Regardless you'll never be able to make the assumption that if you do not get a notification back that that means the user has not seen the email.
There's no foolproof way to do it since you're not the one in control of the email client. Many people take their privacy seriously enough to prevent read-receipts, web beacons and all the other tricks which can be used to detect the reading (people can turn off read receipts, block images, prevent unsolicited outgoing connections and so on).
This is my opinion of course but I believe you're approaching the problem the wrong way. Instead of trying to force the user to let you know if they've read the email, just make it worth their while. It's obviously of some benefit to you to have this information (otherwise why do it?) so you share that benefit around and make sure it's the user's decision.
That way, you turn the relationship from a battleground into a partnership (win/win).
Yes, there is a standard mechanism (RFC 3798) called read receipts. It is implemented by all modern mail clients, and the user can choose to send (or not) the reciept as they choose.
There are also various non-standard subterfuges for doing this without the user's consent, which I won't detail.
EDIT:
It should be like the below (using built-in PHP mail function):
mail("foo#foo.com", "Let me know if you get this", "Important message", "Disposition-Notification-To: sender#sender.com\r\n");
A common way to check if an email has been read is a web beacon, which is usually a small 1x1px invisible image that is loaded from your server, which can track when the image has been loaded and therefore the email has been read.
This is not guaranteed to work, however, since many email clients block images in their emails or your readers could be using text-only email clients.
Each email has a uniquely named image in it corresponding to the users account (or db row), when that image is loaded or accessed, you can see which user has opened the email. This relies on the user receiving HTML emails though.

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